It was January 2016. I was pregnant with our first child and we were returning home from a vacation. He and I, as well as another attorney from his firm and a paralegal from his firm were sitting in an airport restaurant. He looked at this woman (the paralegal) and commented about the seashell scratch and sniff tattoo on her inner thigh, the scent from which, reminded him of the ocean. The other attorney, who was well known for being an extremely crude individual, looked at me and said “are you sure you want to be with this guy?” Almost in tears, I responded “I’m already pregnant”. I felt trapped and he knew it. He then got mad at me for saying “I’m already pregnant”. He took zero responsibility for the horrific, disgusting, and sexually harassing comment he had just made to this other woman right in front of me. This is what narcissistic abuse looks like.